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Bondage qua bondage is just getting tied up during sex. It doesn't necessarily mean submission (although there is some of that for many people) or powerlessness (although that idea of powerlessness is the kink for many people). For some, bondage is all about being reminded that it is OK just to lie back and be done, rather than having to constantly worry about reciprocating. For others, it's a way to give permission to have things done to one that would normally not be OK.

S&M 101